Wedding is a life changing event in one’s life!! Well we are not trying to scare you here. But this is a fact life changes post marriage. You get a friend for life with whom you can talk almost anything and everything about. So many “first-time” incidents that you preserve in your box of memories. The dreams that you had seen will be fulfilled with the help of your better half. Being with each other under all circumstances, no matter how difficult life gets. And good times ahead full of adventures and roller-coaster ride that awaits the couple in unison.
While preparations of the BIG DAY start months in advance – venue booking, catering, trousseau shopping, themes of different functions, printing invitations, bachelorette party ideas, after party themes, and hiring a photographer. Phew!!! Amidst the chaos, the center of the wedding from beginning to end is undoubtedly our beloved BRIDE. There are people (bridesmaids and brothers) around her, trying to pamper her, enjoying the last few days and eventually hours of singlehood.
It is surprising to know that the number of questions and racing hormonal changes occurring in Brides mind and body are phenomenal. Friends are constantly trying to calm her down. And everybody listens to her (well they don’t have another option), and why wouldn’t they. It’s the Bride after all!! Your best friend forever, your loving sister, your responsible daughter is getting married. You would make every possible effort to put her at ease.
Today we will talk about our bride – her moods and musings. We researched and found out the most common traits of a bride in every wedding. Here are a few –
1. The Calm and Composed – bride belonging to this category knows what she is doing, she is confident about herself and every aspect of the wedding. She has a good hold on her hormones. Even if she is nervous from within, she is not going to let that feeling take over her.
2. Out of Control & Absolutely Bonkers – Well ohh boy!!! Beware of this bride, coz she is going to take a toll on you. Almost certifiable crazy they are and their panic attack can surely give you the terror of your life. Handle them with extreme patience.
3. The Responsible Brigade – this gang will take charge of everything, from the beginning of the wedding to the end. They want everything to be perfect and want everybody to relax and enjoy the auspicious occasion.
4. The Sobbing Bride – We feel these species of brides have an over-flow of tear hormones in them. They wouldn’t mind crying in the name of being emotional. They won’t shy away from any opportunity which may lead to tears rolling down their eyes. Best way to handle them is let them get rid of their emotions.
5. The Sunny Side-up – This bride is absolutely chill. She knows wedding is a lifetime event and she doesn’t want to miss a chance to have the time of her life with the near and dear ones. She is as cool as a cucumber. She wouldn’t mind shaking her leg every time she gets a chance.
So all the lovely brides-to-be, we understand that gazillion thoughts must be popping in your head and you know what, it is absolutely alright. It is your big day, do what makes you happy and embrace the roller-coaster ride.
